2017 Review

paper-3042645_1280.jpgAt that time of the year most of the people celebrate the end of the year and the start of a new year. Some others are busy looking at their accomplishments and mistakes throughout the year. And an important question to ask yourself is; are you actually the same person or does your attitude change throughout the time?. Are you a better or a worse person and what defines better and worse? what is the meaning of these terms. The best thing that could happen is to realise where you are at life and have an outer perspective about your life.

2018, a year to look to

Maybe time and dates have no actual meaning not effect on our lives, but it is a good milestone to remind ourselves of where we are. What you need to focus on is the positive and what makes you happy whether work, family or sports. Don’t do things just for the sake of it.

A year isn’t 365 days, it is the hours when we do what we love to do.

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The Real Meaning Of Being Nice!

snow-man-3008179_1280.jpgA lot of people are being called nice, and most of the time it is just a description of their attitude. But somehow being nice is being related to having a weak personality, not fighting for yourself and some other negative meanings. Obviously, being only “nice” isn’t really much about a person. The word can describe kindness and joyousness as well which is good to be seen in a person. But the niceness that comes off from the person’s weakness is probably the worst type. It comes with the time the development of your personality, so don’t make that get on the way to your niceness.

Success Is Relative

einstein-2197302_1280.jpgThere is really no way to measure how successful a person is, because we all have our own definition of success, and we have our own perspectives of how we see it.

It is not important to be considered successful by others. Your own judgement to yourself is what is counted, and what has the most effect on your life. You could make yourself miserable, just because you think things are not going as intended, but in reality it is just some bumps on the way, to what could make you happy then. You should never underestimate the simple stuff; simple achievement, simple relationships. It is all projected to be something bigger and better, maybe you don’t see it at a time, but I am sure there is a time to the realization in the future. So, start now by believing in yourself and your journey.

Change It Up A little

vw-camper-336606_1280Routines, like everything else, have their positives and negatives. It is good to have a schedule to follow, and get used to certain type of things you do, which means you can get good at them by time. On the other side, things could get boring, staying in the same lane, doing the same thing, could lead you to hate, what you are doing.

Traveling is a key for a lot of the people as they escape their surroundings, to somewhere else, where they don’t have to behave in a certain way or do certain actions. I see traveling as a chance to learn more about life and make it a bit more interesting. Whether you go so far away or not, it is always a good experience to have. By having to adapt to different lifestyles, you get to be more of a flexible person. It is also a test to your personality to measure how much you change, or get affected by things around you.

Gatherings

people-690105_1280Gatherings could be a fear for a lot of people, and it also could be a source of happiness to others. It all boils down to you being comfortable around certain people, doing certain activities. Or maybe it is just about how comfortable you are with yourself and your surroundings.

You don’t really have to be “one of them” to share a moment; meaning you can do your own thing in your own style, and still have fun as the others. We don’t all have to like the same things, it is good to be unique and different, and it is better to be yourself, than a copy of someone else.

A Story To Tell

book-419589_12800Having a story to tell is always a good quality to have, especially when you are often exposed to meeting new people. It could be an icebreaker to tell a thing, that happened to you, especially if things didn’t go as planned.

By having an adventurous life, you can have a lot to learn, and a lot to tell to people. You can make something good out of almost anything. Every situation carries a story, everything wrong that happens, could make an interesting story. So, make the best out of it.

 

Sensitive To… life

ball-2995735_1280.jpgIt is completely normal to feel hurt, when a friend of you say something mean to you even if it is unintentional. The people we care about are the people we think their opinion matters, but I think by time, these things hurt less and less. Being under the spot and feeling criticized is always a thing that people don’t like. At the end, you have to realize that you don’t need acceptance from people, you know yourself better.