As harsh as the title could sound, conforming to the group is a big problem that faces societies.

A big problem that appears at a young age, is that kids become followers and only followers. They become incapable of making up their own decisions or even making choices. It is crucial to get to choose yourself and assist others to make up their minds, to become an individual independent person. This skill harnesses the controlling of your life and your own mind. As it is known, being aware of the problem is the first step to solve it.




Usually, your level of smartness has a lot to do with your sense of humor, or what you find funny. There is no shame if you find someone entertaining, if they are appealing to more younger demographics. I think age and humor aren’t related, but definitely maturity and humor are.

If you think why some stars appeal to a younger generation or probably a different demographic, it is because they have a different sense of humor funny, they might find some over the top funny when you might think it is too much. It is usually the case that they younger you are, the less limits you have, and the more edgy you become.But  humor is also like everything else, it grows up and change by time.


relationship-154725_1280.pngFrom what I have seen in life, which might be little, it is easy for me to say that, there is only two types of people on earth, there are the people who love themselves and there are those who despise themselves, but there are certainly degrees to these emotions. I know how shallow that might seem to some people, when comparing the entire human race. But this classification actually reflects on all what we do in life, how we treat others, how we handle situations, and how we control our lives basically, and think of the people outside of our bubble. Our thoughts of who we are, reflect how we act in life and how we treat others.



We all certainly have had different childhood experiments, but a lot of us have been exposed early on to the idea of being the best and chasing our dreams. A lot are also being judged on how big their dreams are or if there dreams don’t actually exist. You don’t have to grow up knowing what you want to do for the rest of your life. There is no law that says you have to figure everything out by the age of 25, for example . The society and the system might force this idea but what we have to do isn’t follow blindly and make our own opinions along the way. Whether you have a dream or not, you have to chase something, might be the experiment or your happiness and that will lead your mind to open up to new ideas and new adventures.



Are you satisfied with your life?

Are you satisfied with the way you are handling problems?

Are you satisfied with what you have?

The word satisfaction can cover so many perspectives. But it describes a crucial feeling that is needed to be fulfilled. It is a good feeling when it is fulfilled, as satisfaction helps us focus on our goals and future.

You have to look for satisfaction don’t wait for it to happen. Go and find what makes you better, what makes you who you want to be. You have to have an answer, you got to know where you stand at the moment, to make it better in the near future.

Be the change that your life need.

2017 Review

paper-3042645_1280.jpgAt that time of the year most of the people celebrate the end of the year and the start of a new year. Some others are busy looking at their accomplishments and mistakes throughout the year. And an important question to ask yourself is; are you actually the same person or does your attitude change throughout the time?. Are you a better or a worse person and what defines better and worse? what is the meaning of these terms. The best thing that could happen is to realise where you are at life and have an outer perspective about your life.

2018, a year to look to

Maybe time and dates have no actual meaning not effect on our lives, but it is a good milestone to remind ourselves of where we are. What you need to focus on is the positive and what makes you happy whether work, family or sports. Don’t do things just for the sake of it.

A year isn’t 365 days, it is the hours when we do what we love to do.

The Real Meaning Of Being Nice!

snow-man-3008179_1280.jpgA lot of people are being called nice, and most of the time it is just a description of their attitude. But somehow being nice is being related to having a weak personality, not fighting for yourself and some other negative meanings. Obviously, being only “nice” isn’t really much about a person. The word can describe kindness and joyousness as well which is good to be seen in a person. But the niceness that comes off from the person’s weakness is probably the worst type. It comes with the time the development of your personality, so don’t make that get on the way to your niceness.

Success Is Relative

einstein-2197302_1280.jpgThere is really no way to measure how successful a person is, because we all have our own definition of success, and we have our own perspectives of how we see it.

It is not important to be considered successful by others. Your own judgement to yourself is what is counted, and what has the most effect on your life. You could make yourself miserable, just because you think things are not going as intended, but in reality it is just some bumps on the way, to what could make you happy then. You should never underestimate the simple stuff; simple achievement, simple relationships. It is all projected to be something bigger and better, maybe you don’t see it at a time, but I am sure there is a time to the realization in the future. So, start now by believing in yourself and your journey.

Change It Up A little

vw-camper-336606_1280Routines, like everything else, have their positives and negatives. It is good to have a schedule to follow, and get used to certain type of things you do, which means you can get good at them by time. On the other side, things could get boring, staying in the same lane, doing the same thing, could lead you to hate, what you are doing.

Traveling is a key for a lot of the people as they escape their surroundings, to somewhere else, where they don’t have to behave in a certain way or do certain actions. I see traveling as a chance to learn more about life and make it a bit more interesting. Whether you go so far away or not, it is always a good experience to have. By having to adapt to different lifestyles, you get to be more of a flexible person. It is also a test to your personality to measure how much you change, or get affected by things around you.


people-690105_1280Gatherings could be a fear for a lot of people, and it also could be a source of happiness to others. It all boils down to you being comfortable around certain people, doing certain activities. Or maybe it is just about how comfortable you are with yourself and your surroundings.

You don’t really have to be “one of them” to share a moment; meaning you can do your own thing in your own style, and still have fun as the others. We don’t all have to like the same things, it is good to be unique and different, and it is better to be yourself, than a copy of someone else.